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Making it Work: Introduction
Discover the best in your Marriage
Granted, men and women are different, but God intended marriage to be a paradise even with these differences. Many great authors have written books offering practical marriage guides stressing each partner's role in having a successful relationship, yet many couples still struggle. Why? In most cases, couples struggle more when one partner's indifference leaves the other partner frustrated, confused, and in doubt. This book sheds light on what may be expected in order to emerge victorious from an imperfect marriage based on the scriptures , my experiences and viewpoint.
Making It Work is about making the necessary changes to improve your marriage, yourself and your life in other to discover the best in your marriage. While we can not always control the way our partners acts, we can control how we react to them and to the negative situations that bring grief in our relationships. The truth is that it is much harder to influence a positive change through the use of outward forces, such as verbal confrontation, manipulation, intimidation, threats or coercion, than with the right attitude and positive affirmations. For instance, effective force of change lays within the palms of a prayerful and virtuous woman, a woman who draws on her inner strength to make herself beautiful, invaluable, and stronger, even in the face of injustice and adversity. According to St. Peter, a virtuous woman is the one who controls the heart of her husband, turns him around without needing to say a word, and wins him over to believe because he sees how fair and sincere her conduct is (1 Pet. 3:12). "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil" (Prov. 31:11).
This book offers strategies for improving and rebuilding a marriage, as well as encouragement and helpful hints on living through the difficult times while working to reclaim your “dream” marriage. Through adjustments in attitudes and behaviors, unconditional love and acceptance, and faith in God, the changes advocated will strengthen your position and leverage your bargaining power.
Making It Work: Discover the Best in Your Marriage, Part One is inspired to improve relationships and increase self-worth. Part Two is inspired for daily living to heal the soul and renew strength in God, and Part-Three contains worksheet for planning for success. It's about self-empowerment to love better, live happier, forgive faster, pray better, and much more to enjoy the fullness of what you have been given. While I wrote from the perspective of a woman to a woman, my message and principles are applicable to men, any man who wants to discover the best in his wife, his marriage and in himself.
If you are able to apply some of the knowledge or principles in this book, you will see tremendous changes in your spouse that you have always desired. If you have been blessed with a perfect mate, I encourage you to read on, for there is something for everyone to take home.
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